When it comes to starting solids, parents often wonder: “Should I let my baby self-feed or offer purées with a spoon?” Both approaches have their benefits, and many families end up choosing a mix. Let’s break down the differences to help you decide what works best for you and your baby.
What Is Baby-Led Weaning (BLW)? 👶🍴
Baby-Led Weaning means allowing your baby to feed themselves with soft, age-appropriate finger foods from the start. Instead of spoon-fed purées, babies explore textures, tastes, and shapes on their own.
Benefits:
Encourages independence and motor skills
Helps babies learn to chew and handle food safely
Allows family meals together (baby eats what you eat, adapted for safety)
Considerations:
Messier mealtimes
Requires patience (babies may eat less at first)
Parents need to be confident about safe food sizes
What Is Spoon-Feeding? 🥄
Spoon-feeding is the traditional method of offering puréed foods with a spoon, gradually moving to mashed and chunkier textures.
Benefits:
Parents control portion size and pace
Easier for busy families to prep and serve
Helpful if your baby struggles with self-feeding at the beginning
Considerations:
Less opportunity for babies to explore textures independently
Risk of “pressuring” if parents push the spoon when baby isn’t ready
Can You Combine Both? ✔️
Absolutely! Many families do a hybrid approach:
Start with purées by spoon, while also offering safe finger foods (like steamed carrot sticks or banana spears).
Let baby self-feed when interested, but step in with a spoon if needed.
This way, you get the best of both worlds: the nutritional reassurance of spoon-feeding and the developmental benefits of BLW.
YumYum Tip 💜
Whether you choose BLW, spoon-feeding, or a mix — the key is to keep mealtime calm and pressure-free. Trust your baby’s cues. Babies who feel safe and supported are more likely to enjoy food and build healthy eating habits for life.
✅ Conclusion
There’s no “one right way” to start solids. The best approach is the one that works for your baby and your family. Baby-Led Weaning and spoon-feeding can both lead to healthy, happy eaters — it’s all about balance and flexibility.
